I know some of you have been wondering what the hell happened since Thursday night which has caused me to start apartment hunting (and I did find a nice one today though a little expensive for me). So here is a recap about the last 5 days.
Thursday:
Alex and I packed the cats up after work and took them to Anabees for the weekend since we were going to the Common Ground Fair up in Unity. We were supposed to pick them up on Sunday from the cat hotel. Alex and I drove to Waterville checked into a motel and spent the evening watching bad cable television while planning our weekend at the fair.
Friday:
We got to the fair bright and early with sun shiny faces since we were both doing a volunteer shift in the morning. I was working as a ticket taker at the Pine Gate, and Alex was doing composting. After our respective shifts ended we went and saw the bunny barn (which I love) and a few other animals. We ate a delicious falafel, some Maple Sugar Candy and lots of other goodies. Around 3 o clock Alex went to the bathroom and I sat under a tree, he vanished for like half an hour and when he returned he was all stormy and freaking out. Apparently Tim and Lili (the people who own the camp) had come up for a long weekend, Friday- Tuesday. Alex and I didn't know they were coming so we didn't remove our stuff or "clean up." Tim and Lili legitimately freaked out on us. Alex offered to come down that evening and clean everythign up move our stuff he could have been there by 5. Zizi said that no no everything was fine, she would clean it up no problems no hard feelings.
Saturday:
Alex and I went back to the fair and had a mediocre day worring about what would happen when we got home.
Sunday:
We had a slightly better day at the fair, though not by much. We were nervous about going back and needing to see Tim, Lili, and Zizi so we left just after noon and headed home. When we got there we ran into Tim and Lili and it was far worse then I imagined (though Alex said that it wasn't worse then hed imagined). We got yelled at, told that the cats are NEVER allowed back in the camp. That we had been disrespectful to the space because we had been using their things (cups plates, bowls, pans etc) That the condition the camp was in was unexcusable (it wasn't that bad I swear) etc. Finally they left saying that Zizi would talk to us about how we are going to "move forward" in the future. Zizi of course wasn't home so we sat around for over 2 and a half hours waiting for her to get there and for us to get reamed out once again.
Zizi didn't have much to say to us, just that there were definitely some problems that we were going to need to work out since we are living as a community and there need to be ground rules and oh yeah your cats aren't allowed back. Alex said he would talk to her more on Monday to hash things out. Me I said nothing went to bed slept 12 hours and cried a lot.
Monday:
I went to work upset and Alex said he would talk to me after he spoke to Zizi. At lunch I got about half of the story from him that basically I was the problem and either had to drastically change my personality and actions and start being more of a community member or I wasn't welcome back. But of course Alex was cool and they really want him to keep living there because hes awesome. I spent the rest of the day at work crying every time someone looked at me and was so bad that my boss tried to send me home and I burst into tears sobbing that I didn't have a home and had no place to go. I must have looked really awful because she let me know that she has a spare bedroom in her house and to call her if I need a place to stay for awhile. In between crying I spent the rest of the afternoon looking for apartments in town.
After work Alex took me to visit my cats at Anabees. They were really happy and had been socializing with her cats and making friends. Phil cat always knows when I am upset and he let me hold him and rub my snotty face all over him for a half hour. I paid Anabee for the time that the cats had been there already and told her I would be back for a visit on Thursday. After that Alex told me all the rest of his conversation which involved a whole lot more of everything Anna has done wrong and everything that is wrong about me. Then he got to the best part that Zizi had told him that three cats are too many cats in general and that if we were going to stay we had to get rid of at least one of them. Well obviously that was a deal breaker for me since I refuse to abandon a cat so I stopped crying and starting calling apartments and scheduling tours for today.
Tuesday:
Went to work, apologized to everyone for crying everywhere yesterday and explained what was happening. I saw one apartment that I liked today it is a 2 bedroom for 725 a month. After work I am looking at another one that is a bit closer to the library and is a 1 bedroom for 675.
And that is how my whole life went to hell in a weekend. As for the yurt as long as I didn't screw things up for alexs job at the farm he plans to keep building it at least to see it to completion and prove that we rocked. After that who knows what will happen.